Good morning hon. The funny thing is this morning I pulled the blanket over me and just didn’t feel like getting up for a while lol. I got up vacuumed the carpet in the living and the chair where my sister sleeps lol. I fixed breakfast for her and I ate a little something. I’m going out to dinner tonight with a couple ladies they texted me yesterday to see if I wanted to go out. I ordered a screen for the front of my garage so I put that up yesterday. It looks really nice. Now I can keep the bugs out while my sister is out there smoking lol. My neighbor seen it and she asked if I would put one up on her garage door lol. I told Her I would once she picks out the type she wants. I will look for a couple and send them to her to think about. Wednesday night we went out to dinner as normal. I still enjoy that time with everyone. Last night my sister asked about going out to a restaurant but I had to tell her that I can’t take her to a restaurant because she smells like pee. She asked if she smells I said yes a lot. But it didn’t help she still didn’t get cleaned up lol. Oh well. I’m going to run up to Dunkins and get her a coffee now. She asked me after dark last night to get her one but I didn’t go out after dark. But other than that everything is still about the same here lol. The weather is still in the middle 80’s doing the day but at night it’s around upper 60’s but we still have a couple storms out over the ocean. Hope you have a wonderful day with your little buddy lol. I know he loves coming to see you lol. Enjoy and keep safe hugs.

Good morning hon. I did see where they traded Joe to the Bengals. I didn’t get the chance to watch any football Sunday. I was busy cleaning the house and Grocery shopping. Yesterday I was able to get the grass cut and trimming done. My neighbor did her yard as well. Today I have a few errands to run and a couple stores to stop at. So far my sister is still managing to get up and make it to the garage to smoke. I ordered a garage door screen last night for the garage. Hopefully it will help keep some of the bugs out while she has the garage door opener when she is smoking. I have a bug zapper hanging in the garage now. It’s not like we have a lot of bugs here lol. We do have Mosquitoes lol. But I don’t want any bugs in my house. I worked hard to keep everything out of the house. But with the screen it will help keep the smoke out of the garage as well lol. I have a fan in there now blowing out the smell also. Oh yeah Mr Jude knows he has your heart lol. I know he will make you laugh at that age lol. I enjoyed my grandkids when they were little. I still miss those days. Hope he is doing well. The winter months are coming hopefully he don’t get sick. Enjoy the rest of your day. Don’t overdo it get some rest. Keep safe hugs.

Good morning hon. I didn’t see the Packers game. Did Flacco play for the Bengals? I ran out to do groceries shopping and do a few errands. I guess it’s going to be hard to find anything freshly baked anymore lol. After our Generation and our kids not many knows how to cook lol. I bet the bread was delicious. I do miss the smell and the taste of fresh baked bread. My sister used to be a great cook back in her days. She could make the best potato salad ever. Chill was always good lol. I used to cook a lot when my kids was little. But after my Divorce my ex took all my cook books lol. The funny thing is she never cooked I did lol. But I forgot a lot of stuff after not cooking as much as I once did. Even now I’m cooking more just for my sister but if it was just me I wouldn’t cook as much. I hope your week starts off well for you. I may have to cut the grass if I can find the energy. Enjoy the rest of your day stay safe hugs.

Good morning hon. We have a few bakery here but they are not like they used to be. It’s mostly just sweets no real bread. I do miss the Old Fashioned Bread. I need to run to the grocery store today and pick stuff up for dinner this week. My sister is still making it to the garage to smoke but she is getting slower at it. She doesn’t remember too much. I have to repeat myself or remind her. We had a cooler day yesterday it was 77 last night it went down into the 60’s but that was from the storm going past us again. Today we will be back into the lower 80’s but cooler at night times. The ocean has been very rough this past couple of weeks. Hope you have an easy Sunday enjoy the games today. Have fun keep safe hugs.

Good morning hon. Hope you have a wonderful time out today. I will run out to get a coffee today myself. My neighbor needs me to use my car to help her move a few things today for the Girls scouts so I will pick up one while I’m out lol. My sister is a chain smoker it would probably kill her if she couldn’t smoke lol. I look at it this way that’s the only exercise that she gets if she can get up and go out to the garage to smoke. I know she has mentioned about going out to eat. But I’m usually cooking dinner about that time. But I will tell her that she can’t go out to a restaurant because she smells like pee. She will not do anything she doesn’t want to. The good thing is that she knows not to yell or say anything to me. She can do that with her Daughter or grandkids. I’m taking each day as it comes. I don’t know what tomorrow will bring. I just keep cleaning the house and spraying Disinfectant spray around her chair. She a sleep more than she is awake. The only time I will put the law down to her is she is not smoking in my house. So if she wants to smoke She Needs To Go Out To The Garage. I don’t like to be mean but something’s I will not let her do or she can go back home. Oh well lol. Enjoy your day. We are having a rainy day today. Have fun stay safe hugs.

Good morning hon. Hope your week is going well for you. I had a great time out with my friends last night for dinner. It was another place that set on the water. It felt like you were on a boat lol. We all ate so much. We liked it so much we may go back next week lol. The chain I have out in the garage for my sister to set on and smoke is the chair that goes in the shower. You can set it high or low however you need it. I have told her that she needs to wash up or at least get in the shower. She refuses to get in the shower. Her Daughter called me a few months back and told me she can’t get her to get in the shower. I told her to tell her that she is starting to smell. She was able to get her in after a few days. I have a feeling that was the last time she was in a shower. She has washed up twice here. But it’s getting to the point she doesn’t want to even do that now. She has asked about going to a restaurant and I told her that I can’t take her until she gets cleaned up. So far it’s not working. Yes she does have Insurance. I did check into a place to put her. They don’t allow smoking. I hate to take that from her right now. As long as she can get up and go out to the garage to smoke I will let her do that. But at some point she will not be able to get up and then I will have to do something different. It’s just so frustrating to me that she let herself get to this point. I have a aunt that will be 96 on the 23rd of this month and she gets around 100% better than my sister. I just can’t believe she let her self go like that. I don’t know what to do at this point. But I’m taking one day at a time. I talked to three nurses and even they told me if she was in a rehabilitation center and she don’t want to clean up that they can’t even make her do it. She is out smoking right now so I’m going to spray her chair with Disinfectant spray right now. Enjoy the rest of your day. Good luck with everything. Keep safe hugs.

Good morning hon. Thank you for the kind words. My son and I both are the same way. We will help anyone that is down on their luck or needs something. Even yesterday I mowed my Neighbor yard for her. She had a couple needles in her shoulder this past week and was unable to do it herself. The funny thing is I just got out of the shower and was feeling good lol. I put old clothes on and went out to mow her yard lol. I know I always told my wife it takes a special kind of person to take care of the older people in these nursing homes. I don’t know if I could do that everyday. My wife used to it for kids. But I don’t mind helping people. My sister is a hand full. But I think what gets to me is she let her self go like that. She was never like that when she was married. I don’t know if she thinks people should just take care of her or what it is. But she don’t want to do anything for her self. She is starting to smell. I have asked her to get cleaned up but no luck yet lol. I do have a lot of Air Freshener around the house even in the garage. Tonight I will go out to dinner with my friends. I will drive again 4 of the ladies will drive with me tonight. We are going to another restaurant that sets on the Water. Enjoy the rest of your day. Stay safe hugs.

Good morning hon. Oh I’m sure Mr Jude missed you. I think you got a new friend there lol. I know it’s hard for the Parents to give most of their time to the kids when they are working. I believe that’s why he likes you lol. You are there for him lol. I ran up to the store this morning to pick up a few groceries. My sister will tell me when she wants something. But most of the time she is just sleeping. She’s up more at night time than during the day. But I’m trying to sleep but it’s hard because I can hear her eating chips or Cheez it lol. I give her medicine to her in the morning’s before she goes to sleep. She don’t say alot to me. She will wake up at different times to go out and smoke then come back and go back to sleep. There’s not much I can do. She’s not going to listen. I got up this morning and went to go to my Bathroom. She had just walked out to the garage to smoke. When I got in front of her Bathroom I stepped in Pee again the second time. Where she peed going to the bathroom. I had to clean it up fast and then wash my feet in the shower. She was coming back in the house when I asked her do you need to change your clothes. She said maybe later. I asked her if they are wet. She said no but I can see around the bottom of her Pajamas they were wet. I went back into my Bathroom and she laid back down and went to sleep. I will try to get her to wash up again once she wakes up but I don’t think she will. I talked to three Nurses and they told me that if she doesn’t want to do something she won’t do it. Even in Relab if she says no they are not allowed to make her. I’m not sure what to do. I will ask her to clean up when she wakes up. Hope everything is going well for you both. Enjoy the rest of your day. Keep safe hugs.

Good morning hon. Thank you very much for understanding. You know exactly what we go through. You have been there. I know it’s hard work but I will do the best I can. It’s funny I have her open the garage door up when she goes out to smoke and I have a chair that sets high enough for her to sit on and able to get back up from it lol. But I have it setting near the garage door plus I have a fan blowing the smoke out of the garage plus I have a couple of Air Fresheners that automatically blows Air Freshener in the garage lol. It’s does help. But you know you can’t get rid of all of it lol. At least it’s warm down here where she won’t catch a cold lol. But we will do what we need to right now. Enjoy your day get some rest. Keep safe hugs.

Good evening hon. Thank you. Funny thing is her Daughter has only talked to her twice since she has been down here lol. I’m sure she is relieved that she don’t have to deal with her Mother for a while. I’m sure my sister would yell more when she was at her Daughters house. But she knows better than do it to me. This is my house lol. I’m almost about to give up on trying to get her to do anything. She’s not going to do anything. I figured as long as she wants to smoke she has to get herself up and make it to the Garage open the door to get to the garage and then open the Garage door lol. At least she is getting some movement. I was going to take her to my Doctor. But after talking to a couple Nurses. I thought my doctor would tell her to go to Physical Therapy. But they said if she don’t want to do the exercises they can’t make her do it. So that would be a waste of time for me and her lol. I really don’t know how much longer she can go on like this. The Nurses also told me when they start to have trouble with their minds one of the first things they will do is not take a shower. She don’t eat much but I give her the Protein shakes every day so it will help. If she can’t smoke it will kill her. But I don’t know what will go first. Smoking or getting to the Garage. She pays for her Cigarettes. I went up today and picked up 6 boxes and it cost $60.00 dollars lol. I used her card to get them. I picked up a cheaper brand earlier this week but she didn’t like them lol. The problem I have now I can’t get her in the car to have her pick out a different brand that she may like she may be able to get in once but not twice and I can’t pick her up. I guess I’m lucky she can make it to the garage. But she will set out there for about two hours lol. At the moment I don’t know what else to do. I will take each day as it comes. I know I’m more tired now than normal lol. I was able to cut the grass today and take a long shower lol. Hope you have a wonderful Sunday. Enjoy keep safe hugs.