Good night Cindy, I am back from my vacation. I had a wonderful time. It was wonderful seeing both my sons and two of my grandchildren! How have you been?

I'm so sorry to miss that Damselfish! I had just gotten out of my car to go into the house, and in that short time, the fish came and went.

Thanks for spotting!

Hi Cindy! You might get more Damselfish if you plant a Forest Sunlight to deter some of the guppies. Maybe 1 less plate of berries to do that.

How many more Blue Damselfish do you need to spot?

Me too :)

Oh it's a wolf thing. My friends used to bring me wildlife that was injured or had no mom and needed fostering. When someone came around, they would be little growlies.

I’m sure he’s excited and nervous :) such a big step. My son (Luther) will be flying the nest soon. In fact, he’s only still at home because he was retrenched and is job hunting. Once he’s working again he will get married and they will move into their first home. I tell him that regular visits are going to be expected ;) I know that my life will change completely when he moves out. We are very close. I will still have my cats though, thank heavens!

All the best for your son’s move this weekend. I’ll be thinking of you 💚 hugs and strength.

Hello Cindy, so nice to hear from you. I did talk to him, he was the only one who knew about my situation with my new colleague, and I think you do too ;) I did feel better, but I do miss his replies. I can only imagine the pain you feel, although I know that pain on a smaller level. I lost my “husband” a year after we divorced, but I loved him and I miss him still, his voice, his scent, his laugh. My heart aches for you, and I hope you and your son are doing ok. Sending love, strength and hugs your way…x