Life seems to keep throwing things at you and you do not understand why. You are stronger than you think. There is nothing that you cannot cope with. When you are in this situation, then be still in the eye of the storm and wait for it to pass, then pick up your life, dealing with just one thing at a time. You can then realize that you have survived the storm, but you are not the same person that entered it, you are now much stronger and more experienced. It is true God never gives you more than you can cope with. Be gentle with yourself, love yourself, forget what others think, that is their opinion and is of no consequence to you. All that matters is your own opinion of you. You see God already knows and loves you, so at the end of the day it does not matter what others think it is between you and Him, no one else. Remember to love yourself. xx