Hello Ed, TY for the mouse. I did read Diane's post to you re. urine problems. Diane does not have dementia and I really do not think that is Sandra's problem re. urine, although I am not a doctor. I do agree with Diane that your daughters should help with getting Sandra to a doctor. Oh Ed you are really doing it tough at the moment. I really feel for you and you can complain to me any time that to need to. No need to say sorry! Sending you HUGS!

Hello Ed, TY for the White Mouse. I did have the usual busy and happy Monday! I am so sorry about the episode with Sandra and glad that it had a happy ending with her unpacking the case and settling in again. What does she do if she is not knitting? Are her materials still close by? I was wondering if it happens again you can distract her by saying "First we need to go and sort out all the wool etc.?" Mum tells me that she used distraction. I think that you are doing an amazing job caring for Sandra. Hugs.

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Morning splash-- It is a very foggy looking morning h ere butthe temperatures are to rise again so maybe this time the cold weather will be gone.  You are sort of caught between a rock and a hard place with Sandra--sounds like you really need some help somehow--as you say hopefully the girls can help. I don't know about water infection but I do know whaen I had the infection that finally put me in the hospital--I was not seeing things as they are--was in a totally different place even though it was still my apartment.Even though she will not like it I am afraid it sounds like time for some professional help because its not something you can handle alone.--just my opinion from what I have seen go on here. Hope today is better(at least quiet and no ups or downs) and have a good day--the golf should be interesting!!!

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Hello Ed, does Sandra's melt downs happen after nightfall? As I told you I discovered today that Dad had melt downs then. I will have to research Sundowners. Sending  you and Sandra many hugs.

Hello Ed, Ty for the mouse. I phoned Mum after my last post to you as I wasn't sure if Dad had Dementia or Alzheimers. It was Dementia and something that I did not know about called Sundowners, which is something that happens to some Dementia patients when the sun goes down. I told Mum about Sandra wanting to 'go home' and Mum told me that Dad would often say, "Well we have had a good holiday but now it is time to go home." Mum told me that she would then find ways to distract him. I honestly knew nothing about that! Typical of Mum who never complains. Something that my brothers and I are now lecturing her about. When a doctor asks how are you feeling Jean? She usually answers "Fine." Mum has to learn to speak about her slighest niggles. Hugs!

Hello Ed, oh dear I feel for you and Sandra. Is she still knitting? How did you deal with her wanting to go home? Hugs.

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