splashed

Incidently the Scottish open was called today because of fog.

splashed--  You are doing everything you should,never feel like you are failing because from all I have heard that is a commom feeling because nothing cam really be done. A old neighbour of mine,when he husband could no longer looks after her as he thought he should,and had to put he is long time care--she ask what she did wrong because she was locked up(the outside door had to be kept locked because there would be too many leaving and not knowing where they were.It is a heart breaking disease and nothing can be really can be  done.I am so sorry that it has come tothis and no one had a magic formula for you. I am sure  there is help available so this does not all rest on your shoulders or the Kids -so I would get onto the powers that be and hustle them up into some sort of help.Do the best you can and hope for a better day tomorrow.

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Good morning--so sorry to hear there was another fall--even at the best of time it is hard to remember to grab a walking aid. I have been using the walker for ages now and every so often I just head out across the room without it and then its a panic because I don't want to fall.Personally I don't like to have to use the cane or the walking frame without the 4 wheels because it slows me down. I also never  could get my act together with crutches or anything after all my surgeries ,It is just what you feel comfortable with and can use.I hope all is quiet and well today but I am afraid that the falls will continue unless she uses something everytime.It is slightly cooler this morning so for right now I have the windows and door open and the fans still going, but I am sure it will warm back up and we will be shut in. Maybe I will have to try to get down and out front for a bit today.Hope things go smoothly and you can have a better day.

Splash

Hello Ed, I use a walking stick when I go for my morning coffee as we do not have pavements here at the back beach. If a car comes along I have to get up off the road. Often tricky as my knees are still waking up hence the stick. Mum uses a walking frame now. It gives her confidence. Perhaps a walking frame would be better for Sandra? It would be more visable to her. Does she sleep upstairs? I am now off to bed to read a book. HUGS.

Read your Post to Mom .
I can say as one of the children . The children want to help and because they have more energy it is looked upon as jumping in and taking an aggressive posture . Everyone wants the same objective but have different routes to get there .
Also you see your wife everyday and all happens .
The children only get a snapshot .
None of us have all the answers .

Hello ED, TY for the mouse. O dear! I hope that Sandra is OK! Does she need to go to hospital? HUGS!

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